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Bernadette-Fanatic
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posted: 6/20/2002 at 11:00:54 PM ET
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Okay, I am REALLY taking a risk here but I want EVERYONE'S opinion:

I am seeing Bernadette on July 2nd and I wanted to ask her a VERY delicate question. I don't want her to take it the wrong way but it's something that people are CONSTANTLY talking about. Here's how I would phrase the question:

(In a VERY calm tone) "I just wanted to say that you sounded great tonight! I really enjoyed the show! I have a question, though, and I hope you don't mind my asking, but your fans and myself are getting a little concerned about your voice. It seems like it's changed in the past couple of years and I know everyone would want to know if you're doing okay or not."

Now I think that's a very delicate way of asking Bernadette the question that is one everyone's mind. However, I could be TOTALLY out of line, so I'd like your opinions. The Bernadette quesion: good idea or bad idea?

I am truly a happier person because of Bernadette Peters

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posted: 6/20/2002 at 11:11:16 PM ET
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I posted a response to your question on the Broadway.com message board. I'll post it again. VERY BAD IDEA! NOT YOUR PLACE TO ASK. I elaborated on the other site.



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posted: 6/20/2002 at 11:20:08 PM ET
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I would find it very rude if someone asked me that. Its her business not her fans and I dont think you should involve others in this by saying "your fans want to know". If you truley are a fan of hers you woudnt say something like that to her face....

Cindy



Karen
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posted: 6/21/2002 at 10:51:20 AM ET
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No. Absolutely not. That would be extremely inappropriate and uncalled for. I urge you not to say anything like that to any performer. Besides, that's just a personal opinion, not a universal impression. I saw her in concert last October and emphatically do not share your view. However even if I did feel that way about a singer I would never say such a thing. It would be hurtful and unnecessary. Please think seriously about anything you might say. Well, that's my 2 cents worth.



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posted: 6/21/2002 at 2:05:24 PM ET
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I agree with the others. No matter how nicely you'd say it, it would soubd rude. And if you truly are a Bernadette fan, you would not say anything that might hurt her feelings.



Bernadette-Fanatic
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posted: 6/21/2002 at 4:05:14 PM ET
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I might have come across like I wasn't too fond of Bernadette. On the contrary. My screen name isn't Bernadette-Fanatic for nothing! ;-) I'm absolutely CRAZY about her!

I merely was worried about her present vocal condition. I love her SO much and the thought of her voice not being what it used to be is scary for me. I thought if I asked her if her voice had been okay lately, I guess I was hoping for her to say that she had a cold or whatnot and that it would be back 100% in no time.

I will, however, take everyone's advice and NOT mention this to her when (Actually, I should say "if") I meet her. By the advice from the people on the Broadway.com message boards, I'll comment on her beautiful skin instead! :-)

Have a great day everyone!




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BernBaby21
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posted: 6/21/2002 at 7:36:17 PM ET
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I agree that it would be quite out of line to ask such a question...however, it seems that many people are concerned so I can definately unerstand from where you are coming! And by th way everyone, I am baaaack! hehehe, miss me????????

Time heals everything....

Christine-NYC
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posted: 6/22/2002 at 1:30:20 AM ET
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Ok, wait...I just spoke to Bernadette the other night at her RCMH concert and she speaks just fine (doesn't sound like she's sick or anything)...& her performance at that concert backs that up (She sounded amazing).

<3CMH<3

XoHollywoodSweeti9
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posted: 6/22/2002 at 11:05:16 PM ET
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christine-

i second that! and i personally dont think that it your place to ask such a question, she sounds just fine to me though!

~*christa*~



daedreams
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posted: 8/25/2002 at 3:01:29 AM ET
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as a singer i find that voices periodically change for what reasons no one knows, could be age, environmental, stress, cold and much more. it is best not to ask any singer that question.



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